No Short Cuts In Life

Culture today is characterised by a desire for instant gratification. The quick fix: fast food, cosmetic surgery, cramming, pornography, “lose 10 pounds in 30 days”, “ buy now pay later”, self help books that promise a solution to every imaginable family and personal problems. Any time spent in these activities results in benefits that are temporary and illusionary. There are no shortcuts or quick fixes in life.

For example, successful farming requires tilling, planting, watering, and cultivating. All these actions must be taken to ensure a bountiful harvest. In, “First Things First”, author Stephen Covey refers to this example as The Law of Farm and argues that the no short cut principle applies to all facets of life. Similarly, the Bible provides that, “whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.” The most important aspects in life are God and family. Are we taking shortcuts in developing a relationship with Jesus and with our family?

Notwithstanding our busy lives we must find time for Him: “Seek first the Kingdom of God”. Do this by; daily reading of the Bible, readings of the Holy Fathers of the Church, prayer – talk to God, attending church every Sunday. There are no shortcuts to climbing the ladder that leads to God.

We must find more time for our spouse and for our children. Time and the accompanying attention, is the most important gift we can provide our family: Material possessions or money have little meaning in creating lasting harmony. Our behaviour towards the family must be governed by patience, tenderness, selflessness and forgiveness. Demonstrate these virtues, endure all that comes your way, and over time healthy relationships will be harvested. There are no shortcuts or quick fixes.

My friends, sow your time wisely.

James
May 22, 2007
Toronto

My Special Wife

Facing hardship every day
Without asking why it came her way

Chronic illness is her cross
That she carries without fuss

She looks forward to tomorrow
Whether it will bring peace or sorrow

On a typical day she is at rest
Up and about she gives her best

A degree or career she has not
Yet her wisdom is often sought

The innocence in her eye
Tells she cannot lie

The cheerful smile on her face
Says that she has been touched by God’s grace

To our children she devotes her life
I love my beautiful special wife


James
Toronto
May 12, 2007